Growing
Online Dating Relationships
Just like regular real-world relationships, online relationships need
tending, to grow over time. Here are some quick growing tips.
1. Take time and make time. Does your online date get
in touch with you regularly? Do you do the same? Neglecting virtual
meetings can be considered abuse or neglect, so treat each
other’s time with respect. If it’s lacking, might mean time
to move on.
2. Communication needs to “feel” right
for both of you. If one of you is too pushy about meeting, for
instance, that can give off bad vibes. So don’t rush. Take time
to learn more about each other and develop trust.
3. Respect each others privacy. Don’t share
personal email addresses or digital photos online, for example, if your
online date sent you the information in confidence.
4. Share special online and offline fun times. Online
– send greeting cards, links to favorite places to upload digital
photos of your favorite pet, download music and video clips, post on
favorite forums of interest. Offline- if you’re exchanging
addresses or post office boxes, send print greeting cards and
postcards, small items from your area (like a key chain with your state
bird).
Tend your online relationship. Water it with care and over time it can
sprout and grow.
Nezrul
Hisyam
www.karungwang.com
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